When mother-of-four Cara Brookins fled domestic violence with her children, she was determined to put her family back together again. Just nine months later, she'd not only built a home from scratch— with the help of YouTube tutorials no less—but had also rebuilt her family. Surprised and delighted at the success of her project, she turned her experience into a best-selling book. Click or scroll on to discover her remarkable story...

Not long after their escape in 2008, Cara decided a family project was just the thing to help her and her four young children heal. The challenge? Building a brand new house for them all to live in. "My kids were 17,15,11 and two, and had been knocked down so many times that they needed something big as badly as I did," says Cara. Pictured here years after the home's construction, the project would bring them closer than ever.

A former software architect, Cara grew up in rural Wisconsin and always harboured a love for building things, but never had the chance to as an adult. "After I grew up and had four kids of my own, I should have built big things but I was in several situations that made me feel smaller than ever, like domestic violence and being stalked by a man with a mental illness, so my goals and my future stayed small too," says Cara. 

Cara started the project by purchasing one acre of land in Northern Arkansas and selling the property she already owned. She spent the money from the sale of the house on $130,000 (£98.9k) worth of building supplies, but soon realised she had nothing left to hire construction workers. It was then that she decided to build her new home herself, with the help of her children; Roman, Jada, Hope and Drew. 

The whole family pitched in and Cara started researching and watching videos about the different stages of building a house, starting with how to lay a foundation. This was no easy feat: the group had to hike down a hill to their neighbour's pond in freezing weather for pails of water so that they could mix the mortar by hand in a wheelbarrow. 

Step by step, the family worked together to build every element of the house themselves. With no experience of the construction industry or building projects, Cara and the children learned how to pour concrete, frame the walls and even lay bricks.

Everyone had their own part in helping with the build. Oldest son Drew helped to draw the blueprints, Jada helped create the home's foundation, while Hope cooked for the family. All the children also had to keep an eye on two-year-old Roman, who loved nothing more than to play on the construction site. 

“I didn’t know yet how to frame a window or a door, how to snake pipes and wires through a wall or how to draw up blueprints or obtain permits. But I knew my kids, and I knew we needed this,” Cara wrote in her book, Rise: How a House Built a Family. 

The family worked for 20 hours most days, fitting the build around jobs and school. “While our toes nearly froze off as we mixed concrete in a wheelbarrow, our back muscles ached from hauling two-by-fours, and we sweated and itched our way through fibreglass insulation—we also rebuilt our broken family,” Cara wrote.

In a time before smartphones, the Brookins family spent their evenings watching YouTube videos about the various stages of home construction, memorising the steps for when they were on-site the next day. This online library of knowledge helped them master the complex skill of homebuilding, along with a little help from the experts.

Of course, a bit of professional help was needed from time to time. As well as watching countless videos online, Cara sought help from workers at her local Home Depot store, who provided advice on the different steps of building a house. She eventually hired a man with experience in residential construction and paid him $25 (£19) an hour for a helping hand. 

Despite the Brookins' lack of experience, the house managed to pass every city building code inspection with flying colours, although the inspectors were a little surprised when they found out that a family of novices were behind the impressive building work!

After nine months of back-breaking work, the family's beautiful new home was complete. After getting a certificate of occupancy, the Brookins moved into the residence in March 2009. With its grand columned porch and charming shutters, the home certainly isn't short of kerb appeal. 

The stunning 3,500-square-foot house is spread over two floors and offers five bedrooms—one for every member of the family. Named Inkwell Manor, the property also features a library, a large three-car garage, a workshop and a two-storey treehouse for the youngsters.

Throughout the home, the living spaces are light, bright and beautifully crafted. The dining room features white tiled flooring, a decorative wood-panelled hearth and a glittering chandelier—a stunning space for the family to enjoy a meal together at the end of a long day.

One of Cara's favourite spaces is the library, which caters to her love of books. Fitted out with floor-to-ceiling bookshelves where she can store all of her prized volumes, it's a cosy nook where she can enjoy some creative downtime.  At the heart of the space is this incredible oversized armchair, which Cara calls her writing chair. 

The handcrafted kitchen with its exquisite dark wood cabinetry is beautifully finished, with plenty of homely touches added to soften the space. The house is also dotted with artwork, including these framed tiles, which depict Leonardo Da Vinci's 'Five Characters in a Comic Scene'.

Reminders of the family's incredible journey are found throughout the house. In the stylish living room, with its neutral sofa and cosy throw cushions, a bespoke piece of wall art references their story, and how it “was never about a house”. 

Even the smallest spaces in the home are imbued with personality. This pocket-sized powder room has a quirky feature wall clad in yellowing pages from books, a nod to the home's literary name, Inkwell Manor. A gilded mirror and ornate metal taps complete the Victoriana look.

The remarkable family home has no shortage of spaces for relaxing and unwinding. This cute reading nook, with its comfy seating and white staggered storage shelves, offers a peaceful spot to kick back and get lost in a good book. 

Cara decided to share the family's incredible experience with the world and wrote a book about their journey, from home-building to healing. Rise: How a House Built a Family was released in January 2017 to critical acclaim and her story has reached more than 75 counties.

Since the book's release, Cara spends her time inspiring others through Ted Talks and public speaking. "I decided it was worth it if we could do one thing, and that was to focus on the way that people would feel when they walked out of the theatre. Like, if this small unlikely person could stick with it and figure out how to do this thing for her family and build an entire house, then they could do whatever crazy dream they've been putting off."

Cara has even launched her own motivational podcast, The Cara Brookins Show. The inspiring episodes offer frameworks and guidance to help her listeners take action and embrace big changes in their own lives, all informed by her own experiences of triumphing against the odds.

Their journey may have begun with an ambitious DIY project at a time of hardship, but it led to so much more than the Brookins family could have anticipated. With strength, resilience and determination, they built something incredible that transcends their home's bricks and mortar. We can't wait to see what they do next!

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